The easiest way for you to get a 'slave' is if you also become one. Taking turns is not only hotter but also much more sustainable, not to mention it's more likely you will find someone that is sane and good looking and not some psychotic freak that might snap at any moment. One of the good thing about being vers in this regard as well is that you don't only have more fun, but you also never complain that you don't get what you want. Onesided losers always bitch about not having what the rest of us find easily enough.