I'm a 19 year old American girl, have a great sense of humor, am relatively attractive, and not overweight in the slightest, so why is it so difficult for me to find a perverted old boyfriend? Yes, I have very small breasts, but there has to be older men out there who are attracted to girls like me. I am very much ONLY attracted to men three times my age, but for some reason I have absolutely no luck finding one.